Clueless about the best way to meet people and get to know a new city? There's a simple way to figure out where the best spot to go later in the evening is, or better yet, to understand how things work. Just head to a local cafe, and get the best insight on how the country you're in operates. Learn if people are leisurely or rushed just by watching them drink some coffee.
You see, the caf? lifestyle is more than just a reflection on how the locals like their coffee (one sugar, two sugars, milk, no sugar). It lets you know how people value their time, how a day actually moves, and whether or not you're going to find yourself waiting a long time for your friends to show up. In places like Western Europe, it's literally possible to sit as long as you like, sipping on a cappuccino, watching the action of the city go by. In Italy, if you meet a friend for coffee and don't stay for a couple of hours, they're going to think something is terribly wrong. After all, where could you possibly have to rush off to?
A number of countries are rather relaxed, but others even elevate their culture from simply enjoyable to intellectually important. Over by the university on the left bank of Paris, a number of tourists flock to the cafes where Sarte and other existentialists wrote some of the most important books of the 20th century. In a city like Paris, the caf? lifestyle is about something more than just leisure. It's about valuing the time to think and create on your own, but also thinking that is an exchange that can happen out in public.
A couple of cities in The United States are a better look at what could have been, or rather, what was before Starbucks made carry-out to-go coffee the thing that everyone needed and wanted. At a couple of regal cafes in New York, Boston, Chicago, and San Francisco, you'll get laughed out the door if you try to order a "tall" anything. Families who came to the States managed to order large machines from the old country that make seriously great drinks, so it's possible to sit for awhile and enjoy a decent coffee and a sandwich with the other people in the neighborhood who value such things.
Probably the biggest difference from country to country is what comes with your beverage. In the States, there's not going to be any free snacks coming with your cappuccino or latte, but elsewhere in the world, a cafe wouldn't think of serving you just a coffee. You see, the caf? lifestyle in places like Buenos Aires, Argentina, will practically give you an afternoon snack. Order a coffee--any coffee--and not only will a nice Italian-style espresso-based beverage come out, it will be accompanied by a glass of sparking water, at least three packets of sugar, a couple of tasty cookies, and sometimes a variety of chips or crackers. Likewise, if you're in Paris, it's sometimes cheaper to just go with their special, which means that your coffee always comes with a croissant or cookies.
And that's the thing about the caf? lifestyle: if you're from a more rushed country, there's something so amazingly freeing about having the time to just hang out and relax and observe somewhere else. Because if you're used to coffee in a cardboard cup that doesn't taste particularly great, it's pretty amazing not just to taste genuinely coffee, but to actually change the pace of your life, even if it's just for a vacation.
Perhaps some of that culture will rub off the places that it doesn't exist already. Starbucks, after all, has made it acceptable to want something with espresso, and maybe the slow food movement in The States will carry over to beverages in public. A number of bloggers and internet fiends are making it slightly more acceptable to sit in a public place and still be a responsible adult, so long as there's a computer in front of you and you look busy.
So the next time you're on the road, be it in your own country or around the world, if you want to get to know a little more about the city or country you're visiting, head to any old cafe. The best way to get acquainted, after all, is by steeping yourself in the caf? lifestyle. Who knows what traditions you might pick up and take home with you.
You see, the caf? lifestyle is more than just a reflection on how the locals like their coffee (one sugar, two sugars, milk, no sugar). It lets you know how people value their time, how a day actually moves, and whether or not you're going to find yourself waiting a long time for your friends to show up. In places like Western Europe, it's literally possible to sit as long as you like, sipping on a cappuccino, watching the action of the city go by. In Italy, if you meet a friend for coffee and don't stay for a couple of hours, they're going to think something is terribly wrong. After all, where could you possibly have to rush off to?
A number of countries are rather relaxed, but others even elevate their culture from simply enjoyable to intellectually important. Over by the university on the left bank of Paris, a number of tourists flock to the cafes where Sarte and other existentialists wrote some of the most important books of the 20th century. In a city like Paris, the caf? lifestyle is about something more than just leisure. It's about valuing the time to think and create on your own, but also thinking that is an exchange that can happen out in public.
A couple of cities in The United States are a better look at what could have been, or rather, what was before Starbucks made carry-out to-go coffee the thing that everyone needed and wanted. At a couple of regal cafes in New York, Boston, Chicago, and San Francisco, you'll get laughed out the door if you try to order a "tall" anything. Families who came to the States managed to order large machines from the old country that make seriously great drinks, so it's possible to sit for awhile and enjoy a decent coffee and a sandwich with the other people in the neighborhood who value such things.
Probably the biggest difference from country to country is what comes with your beverage. In the States, there's not going to be any free snacks coming with your cappuccino or latte, but elsewhere in the world, a cafe wouldn't think of serving you just a coffee. You see, the caf? lifestyle in places like Buenos Aires, Argentina, will practically give you an afternoon snack. Order a coffee--any coffee--and not only will a nice Italian-style espresso-based beverage come out, it will be accompanied by a glass of sparking water, at least three packets of sugar, a couple of tasty cookies, and sometimes a variety of chips or crackers. Likewise, if you're in Paris, it's sometimes cheaper to just go with their special, which means that your coffee always comes with a croissant or cookies.
And that's the thing about the caf? lifestyle: if you're from a more rushed country, there's something so amazingly freeing about having the time to just hang out and relax and observe somewhere else. Because if you're used to coffee in a cardboard cup that doesn't taste particularly great, it's pretty amazing not just to taste genuinely coffee, but to actually change the pace of your life, even if it's just for a vacation.
Perhaps some of that culture will rub off the places that it doesn't exist already. Starbucks, after all, has made it acceptable to want something with espresso, and maybe the slow food movement in The States will carry over to beverages in public. A number of bloggers and internet fiends are making it slightly more acceptable to sit in a public place and still be a responsible adult, so long as there's a computer in front of you and you look busy.
So the next time you're on the road, be it in your own country or around the world, if you want to get to know a little more about the city or country you're visiting, head to any old cafe. The best way to get acquainted, after all, is by steeping yourself in the caf? lifestyle. Who knows what traditions you might pick up and take home with you.
About the Author:
Damian Papworth adores coffee. So he launched the One Cup Coffee Makers website. On this site you can read up on your 1 cup coffee maker
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