So This Is Christmas

Merry Christmas is such an infectious feeling I like to feel that way all year around.

So if you are visiting just before Christmas, just after Christmas or even here on Christmas day I am sure you will find something of interest for you and in the spirit of Christmas.

It may be said that Christmas is no longer a celebration but this must be spoken by people that have never had trouble closing their eyes on Christmas Eve in an expectation of what maybe left for them on the carpet under the tree.

I continue to look forward to the surprise on my Grandchild's faces to this day at Christmas events.

Merry Christmas - Merry Christmas - Merry Christmas

Wednesday, May 14, 2014

How To Break A Spell

By Arline Bradley


It is not normally easy to disentangle yourself from a chain that one is tied with. The situation even becomes more complicated when you are not aware that you are under some external influence that is beyond your control. In order to break a spell therefore, you need to be a little bit cautious. Some wisdom is required to deal with such a situation.

Relationships have a soft spot for spells. Control of affairs is always totally taken by one of the spouse. A third party is at times involved in terms of consultations. Such a lover makes you extremely dependent on them such that without them you fell totally void. They end up being your key decision makers on serious life issues. This is a spell in its best sense.

Being in a position to dominate the thoughts and actions of someone is an overwhelming experience. Some people can do everything to gain this control. This is normally not realized by the misused party, making them more helpless and vulnerable. People who try to bring the back to reality are labeled haters. It is normally too late when they realize that they were actually duped.

A great scholar called Socrates used to tell the Athenian youths that you should know thyself. This is very important if at all you would like to strengthen your weaker areas and reinforce your strongholds. Accept your weak areas in order for a chance to strengthen them to be sought. Never tarry until its too late to make a change. Consider views from friends and foes alike. Instead of rubbishing them, put them in a weighing.

Sometimes we feel that we know ourselves so much that we do not give a damn about what anybody says. However, its quite regrettable that we fail to understand that it is the observer who can see where the problem is. The wisest move therefore, is for us to listen more than we speak. Once we have listened, we should put what we have heard to deep contemplation before giving a decisive response.

Listening to advise is a crucial step in disentangling yourself from an entanglement. Being in control can wait when it comes to such a time. Give a listening ear and ponder about the information before you react to it. Shame is not as painful as losing yourself worth. You can go through it with time. Pride compromises you dignity if you take it too far. You better suffer shame and remain with a long lasting reputation.

The second and crucial step is to take the necessary step, however hurting it might be. In most cases it is someone closest to you like your spouse who puts you into such situations. Through the freedom that you give them, they can make your life miserable if you are not careful. The decision might involve speaking the truth and stopping some evil acts that have been happening in the background.

Anyone should not brag since we are all vulnerable to a spell. Instead, each of us needs basic skills of breaking loose when the situation allows. Vigilance is mandatory. Positive thinking and deep situational analysis are vital to all of us. Learn to stand by your decisions.




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